A wise young lady once told me “after the age of 21, everyone comes with baggage.” I took this statement to heart because our “baggage” is what shapes us into the people we are. It shapes us in our relationships and our day to day living. There are lots of forms of “baggage”. Let me give you a few examples. For some its an X-that can not be escaped, some it is a trust issue, others it is not being able to let go. So since this “baggage” is what shapes us should we tell others that we date about it? Should it be the forefront of a conversation so that they are more understanding of our actions? Or should it even be allowed to shape us at all? The biggest problem that I have with this “baggage” is that others suffer because of it. I have yet to find a way to make this go away and it is not fair to others around you. How do you control it? How do you get past it? Is there a way to wash it away and start fresh?
How do you handle your “baggage”?
❤ Rayray